Birth Mom retreats are a place where women come together to connect, heal, and grow. The retreats focus on the birth mother experience ranging from pregnancy to post-placement, and the impact cannot be understated. Many of the women only talk about their adoption relationships at retreats because their world is not safe, or they desire their privacy because of stigmas against women who choose to place children for adoption. Even the most open and healthy adoption relationships can be complicated. Birth moms need space to be seen, heard, and valued as they are and work on being the healthiest person they can be for their children. As the co-leader of a birth mom retreat, I see these special times as if they are for the children placed for adoption, and I know these retreats simply cannot happen without the generosity of agencies and people who are invested in the whole triad.